Today I went to Rotterdam with my good friend Colin, to do a little shopping. It was fun! But when I got home I felt like shit, but that doesn't matter I guess.. Most of the day I had a great time :)

I thought about: is it possible to have a (good) friendschip with an ex-boy/girlfriend? You hear it all the time: "we broke up, but we'll stay good friends!" Of course that's what you want. But does and will it work?

When you break up, the other one doesn't always agree. Maybe he/she doesn't look like it, but what if it is.. I guess it doesn't work to stay friends in this situation. The other person may still have feelings. You never know untill he/she tells you.

There can be another reason: you can get irritated by everything he/she does. All of a sudden you see the bad things in a person more and more. Of course there can be a thousand reasons, but I just thought of this two.

My experience is that I can't stay friends with them. Maybe it's because I still had feelings for him, or with others I just can't stand them anymore ("what did I ever see in him?"). But maybe there comes a day that that will change.

Well, this was enough for today.

Picture later..

Bye,

Ing