Today I went to Rotterdam with my good friend Colin, to do a little shopping. It was fun! But when I got home I felt like shit, but that doesn't matter I guess.. Most of the day I had a great time :)

I thought about: is it possible to have a (good) friendschip with an ex-boy/girlfriend? You hear it all the time: "we broke up, but we'll stay good friends!" Of course that's what you want. But does and will it work?

When you break up, the other one doesn't always agree. Maybe he/she doesn't look like it, but what if it is.. I guess it doesn't work to stay friends in this situation. The other person may still have feelings. You never know untill he/she tells you.

There can be another reason: you can get irritated by everything he/she does. All of a sudden you see the bad things in a person more and more. Of course there can be a thousand reasons, but I just thought of this two.

My experience is that I can't stay friends with them. Maybe it's because I still had feelings for him, or with others I just can't stand them anymore ("what did I ever see in him?"). But maybe there comes a day that that will change.

Well, this was enough for today.

Picture later..

Bye,

Ing

When the day passed, I wondered again. But now it was about something else.

The cliché thing to say is that looks don't matter. Ofcourse that's not true. The first thing you see from someone, is they're looks. How they walk, talk, dress etc. But how important is it? If your looks are awfull, do you still have a chance to get married some day?

Of course you do. There's always somebody for someone. But why are some 'not-so-good-looking' poeple so sad and afraid that nobody will ever love them? The looks makes them insecure, that's what makes themselfs less charming. If you don't have the confidence, you look less charming than when you have a lot of confidence.

So, I think that when people who are 'not-so-good-looking' just don't worry anymore about they're looks, that the chance is so much bigger that they are getting a boy/girlfriend. Who you are, says alot more than what you look like.

Now I'm asking myself: it takes a lot of time to get to know poeple, but would you take that time to get to know a 'not-so-good-looking' person, when nothing attracts you to him/her? If the first impression of someone isn't that good, would you still have the patience to get to know them?

It's just because this kind of person isn't that happy and outgoing (cause of the looks maybe), that you don't like them at first sight. They look like they are not interesting. But maybe they are. I guess that everybody knows this kind of person, or maybe you are one. Just think about it: you never know what is behind a persons look and what's going on in they're brains.

Of course it's reversible. The 'good-looking' people, may look great, but of course there's a chance that they're not. Like in the movie: the pretty ones are dumb, and the ugly ones are super smart. What's the deal with that? Who came up with that?

What a bullshit! You're not smarter when you wear glasses, you're not dumber when you are blonde or super good looking. If you're 'not-so-good-looking' and you watch a movie like that, what will it do with you? I guess that it hasn't good impacts on them, right?

Well, I guess I've had enough written down. Do me a favor: just don't judge a book by it's cover ;)

Bye,

Ing

you know what I mean? ;)

Today I woke up at 11:15 AM and started to think about stuff, that I really wanted to write down. I knew that my friend pien has a Blog, where she writes things, and I thought that was really cool. So I decided that, if it's ok with her, I'd take a Blog too.

When I was wondering this morning, I was thinking about when people start feeling lonely. If that moment comes, they start going to look for comfert with anyone. Doesn't matter with whom, just someone. If you think about it, why do human beings do that? I mean, let's face it, everybody has done this sometimes right?

I guess that they don't care who they're with, just that they're with someone. That they have someone to talk about and someone who talks back. Maybe not only for the talking, but other things too. It's not that I'm saying that they 'use' the other person, but they just need them for some persenol support.

The weirdest thing is, I think, that when people start feeling lonely, they're not actually lonely, but they just feel like it. It feels like nobody cares anymore what you're doing in your life. That's why we search for people who will listen and talk back, I guess.

Well, this was enough wondering for today. I'm going to get dressed and walk the dog.

Now some pic's
This is pien (http://freakypien.blogdrive.com):

This is me and my dog 'doerak':

Bye Bye,

Ing